July 21, 2008

Adoption Update

THE DOLL FAMILY, WITH THE ADDITION WE ARE WAITING FOR... WE ALL LOOK SO HAPPY!

Ok so I get frustrated, confused and emotional sometimes. I am unable to have more children of my own, and we feel it is God calling us to adopt a baby from Africa, PLUS we want more babies not just 1 more but more from other countries. Jon has decided he is choosing the name of this baby girl. It is cute that he is intrested as with the first 2 it was always my choice, now he gets to choose and he is enjoying the names he liks to hit me with. As soon as he decides I will throw it out there, but of course I will try to get him to go with my name.. hee hee

My agency Adoption Avenues is saying that my papers have gone from DC back to Portland and now to Ethiopia. From there it should be a few months to hear back and than from there I get lost in translation on what happens next. Do we get our referral from there? does it get translated and than the referral? I know we wont get our court date until at least 3-4 months and than travel about 3 weeks after that, so I am assuming after the new year. We were both looking to bring our baby girl home by the end of the year so we can celebrate Christmas as a family.

(Jon putting the dresser,crib and changing table together with the kids, and YES Logan is naked... thank God for that power gun huh? HA HA.... he is potty training, so its a pants free home!)

Of course the nerd that I am we have started on the baby room. Its adorable. Makenzie wanted the other room upstairs, and so we did chair rail, crown, and Wayne's in it and she got to pick out her new pottery barn bedding and the colors of her walls. The muralist should be here this week or next, so I will post pictures when she is done.
The baby room is Makenzie's old room that is across from Logan's room in between his and the playroom. Since it is decked out with the whole muralist in the Chloe pottery barn pattern on all the walls, I tracked down the baby pattern of the theme (amazing what you can find online since Makenzie only used the pattern in twin size) and got it all done for the baby room. I got the crib, changing table and as I type Daddy Jon is putting the crib together. LOVE IT.... NOW when the muralist comes, all she has to do is change Makenzie's name to the babies name, which means we are going to decide. YES we have tons of time BUT if you know me well I am a now person and want to personalize EVERYTHING and want to know now what her name will be. The room is adorable and goes with the theme of my house. Which if you have never been here, looks like a pottery barn catalog.
I got these custom made dolls from etsy, they are to die for. Logan is not thrilled of the African American Doll that we call the baby. He hides it and pulls her hair out. Jon (God Bless him) holds the doll, rocks it and kisses it. Logan is warming up and even asks to lay in the crib, HA HA. Its too funny.
We requested a baby from Ethiopia from the age of 0-12 months and now I am hoping she is closer to 12 months so that Logan does not feel like I am replacing him or giving her more attention than him. Plus a playmate would be good for him. Makenzie is so excited. She looks everyday in the mail for the baby even if I tell her we have to fly and get her. I hope the stay in Africa is short as I don't do well away from my 2 kids.
I have a mission with hope for kids planned in November with my sister. I need to either get over my co-dependency with my children, but 19 days is hard to be gone away from my chickens, or cancel my spot, which I would hate to do to Shawna but I know she would understand, and my cousin would go with her. I need to make my mind up. Its hard, and I pray daily for God to give me a sign and show me the road to take.
I don't think my family is taking me seriously when I talk about the adoption and that I am really doing it.Its kinda funny but sad in a way. I want them to know how much I want more kids and that I am ready. Logan will be 3 in Oct and its TIME BABY!
Hopefully we will hear something soon from our Agency and some time frames or some news. I am so impatient and hate the waiting game. I like to have things told like it is A. B. C. and done exactly like it is. BUT of course it does not happen that way, BUMMER huh!
Makenzie took this picture of her doll and the new baby's doll together on the changing table! Thought it was adorable, so had to post!

July 20, 2008

2008 Beach House Trip

California Vacation 2008...I love my family Pirate kids
Shawna and Mirage
Paris and Makenzie...too cute cousins
Aunt Trystan and LoganShawna my sister
Logan going out on the boogie board

My Family...I am blessed
Strike a pose Logan
Water play
Makenzie all wet
Pluto

Private Fireworks, the kids loved it
wonderful right in front of our tables
the tram rideShawna and Robb
Logan and Makenzie
Me and my sister Trystan

Me and snugga Jon
Amber and I,I got so cold I had to run into the Del and get a sweater
The Del is behind us but it was so dark you cant see it
Ice Cream and it was freezing out!
Happy 50th Birthday Daddy

Mommy and Logan bug
Daddy and Cheesy smile boy
Daddy at lunch bday
Straw up nose, gotta love boys
throwing money in the pond, wonder what a 2 yr old wishes for?

Just got back from our annual beach house trip. It was a blast this year, but flew by so fast I feel like we did not see all of the family. I did not get as many pictures as I would have liked to so I will post mine and when Shawna sends me hers, I will share those as well. We hit the beach, had a surprise 50th party for my father on the beach at the Hotel Del Coronado, private fireworks, friends and family flew in from all over, did professional pictures (when we get those back I will post), Disneyland, and a million more things I just cant even think of. I finally got to meet Tonya in person as we just blog and chat all the time so that was fun. The kids had such a great time and a week with Jon is always priceless. The weather was perfect, the family was perfect, and we kept thinking that next year we will have our little addition to share all our special moments with us. Alaska cruise is Saturday! The countdown is ON baby! Washing laundry....just to pack it again, plus shopping for formal nights since I want to dress up at the dinners hee heee
I need to start taking more pictures of the moments, the kids were catching all these slimy snails it was nasty, kenzie was smuggling them over the boarder, and we were to tired by the end of the trip. Makenzie starts Church of Joy Kindergarten when we get back from Alaska, so sad, full time! sniff sniff, the fist day of the rest of her life, my little baby... I think I am the one that is dramatized not her...boo hoo

July 10, 2008

USCIS


If through a broken heart God can bring His purposes to pass in the world,then thank Him for breaking your heart.
(Oswald Chambers, My Utmost for His Highest)

Shawna emailed me a collection of wonderful Ethiopia pictures, here are a few that grabbed my attention!
Yippy we got our papers back from USCIS, which was our I600-A sent to homeland security, in return they send back a I- 171H. I got all the paperwork together (about 60 or more sheets of paper, all notarized) and went down to the secretary of state to get them officially sealed. I got them all sealed except they would not do 2 of them because the notary signed wrong, and Jon's birth certificate needed to be sent to California to get State Authenticated.

Monday I tracked down the 2 notaries, got those documents fixed, than overnight California Jon's birth certificate, they said would take 2 weeks, BUT I got it back yesterday, and after going back down to the Secretary of State again, I got them all state sealed authenticated, got my whole Dossier DONE, and it went over night to Oregon yesterday. WE are all so excited.


Next step is it goes to DC, gets hand carried, wait for approval, than back to Oregon and headed to Ethiopia where it will be approved and a picture of our daughter sent to us. Time frame depends on the courts there, the season, and just the country. Of course I will keep everyone posted!


This summer is going to be jammed back with trips, waiting for approvals and court dates, and hopefully a baby daughter before Christmas. We will see what God has in store for us.



Chuckie Cheese...I do it for the kids




Jon works by a chuckie cheese so we met him for lunch. That place drive me nuts, but of course I still go since the kids for some reason just love it. A few pictures for your entertainment.

July 7, 2008

4th of July 2008











It was a windy day but we still had a blast. After the afternoon of swimming, lunch and naps we went to the Surprise Stadium to watch the fireworks. A huge line for dinner, late fireworks but the kids had a blast painting on ceramic stones, seeing all the events and the clowns.


Happy July America.

July 3, 2008

Windy Day





It was a windy day and the kids were having a blast outside with the bougainvillea flowers flying around in the wind it was nice to have a cool breeze and spend some time in the yard

July 2, 2008

After School Painting





After school we met up with some friends and did some pottery painting, we love making new pieces and "useful" ones. I hate getting the little junk things that you know are just going to sit around. We starting to collect the cups,plates and bowls because we know we will always use them!